She’s gonna be alright.
Jennifer Lopez has opened up about being done with marriage after four failed attempts.
The “On the Floor” singer, 55, shared her feelings on tying the knot during a live show on her “Up All Night” European tour, responding to a fan holding a sign that read, “J Lo, marry me?”
“I think I’m done with that,” she joked, according to a fan video. “I’ve tried that a few times.”
Though she didn’t share the reasons why marriage no longer appeals to her, the singer has famously faced challenges in love throughout her life.
The “Maid in Manhattan” actress first married actor Ojani Noa, 51, in 1997, but the couple split just a year later.
In 2001, Lopez found love again with Cris Judd, 55. They got married that same year but eventually divorced in 2003.
Jennifer Lopez reacts to a fan asking to marry her:
“I think I’m done with that. I’ve tried that a few times” 😂 pic.twitter.com/zoQqxse0Tl
— Jennifer Lopez Updates (@JLopezUpdate2) July 16, 2025
Her longest marriage was a decade-long relationship with singer Marc Anthony, 56, lasting from 2004 to 2014. The exes, who remain amicable, share 17-year-old twins Max and Emme.
In spring 2021, Lopez’s love life took a nostalgic turn when she rekindled her romance with ex-fiancé Ben Affleck.
The couple, who originally called off their engagement in 2004, tied the knot in 2022 — but the marriage didn’t last.


In August 2024, the “Selena” star ended her marriage after the couple quietly separated earlier that year. They finalized their split in January 2025.
“I’m happier that I’m a step further along than I was a year ago, two years ago, three years ago… I’m proud of myself for that and I’m proud that I was able to navigate my children through difficult times, that they’re stronger and better because of it,” Lopez said in May.
“So, it’s a great time to go out there and dance and sing and have a good time with everybody.”
This wasn’t the first time the Grammy nominee opened up about the breakup. In October 2024, Lopez told Interview Magazine she has no regrets about the relationship.
“That doesn’t mean it didn’t almost take me out for good. It almost did,” she shared. “But now, on the other side of it, I think to myself, ‘F–k, that is exactly what I needed. Thank you, God. I’m sorry it took me so long. I’m sorry that you had to do this to me so many times.’”

Besides her four marriages, Lopez was previously engaged to Yankees star Alex Rodriguez. The couple dated from 2017 to 2021, during which A-Rod proposed.
She also dated Sean “Diddy” Combs from 1999 to 2001, had an on-and-off relationship with choreographer Casper Smart from 2012 to 2016, and was rumored to have dated rapper Drake in 2016.


