Ryan and Emilie Matthias: Witnessing Their Son’s Heroic Battle Against Cancer, a Test of Strength and Resilience
For a grueling nine months, Ryan and Emilie Matthias stood by their beloved 5-year-old son Garrett, as he confronted the harrowing challenges of cancer. Throughout this arduous journey, hope and determination were gradually eroded from their weary souls. Despite the unimaginable burden that no innocent child should ever endure, Garrett’s indomitable spirit remained unwavering, his bright sense of humor shining through it all…
Profound Reflections from a Brief but Courageous Life: Garrett’s Insights on Cherishing Life’s Essential Treasures
In the face of unimaginable adversity, young Garrett, a mere 5 years old, imparted words of wisdom that resonate deeply within our hearts. Despite his tender age, he encountered relentless trials while contending with a terminal illness, enduring countless painful treatments. Yet, from the depths of his courageous spirit, Garrett shared his thoughts on the precious aspects of life that we often overlook or fail to cherish. These invaluable reflections serve as a poignant reminder for us all.
Unyielding Support Amidst Unbearable Circumstances: Ryan and Emilie Matthias Stand By Garrett’s Side, Embracing His Unforgettable Spirit
Witnessing a child endure immense suffering without the ability to alleviate it is truly heart-wrenching. Throughout their beloved son Garrett’s final days, Ryan and Emilie Matthias found solace in never leaving his side, dedicating themselves to easing his burdens as much as humanly possible. However, amidst the relentless trials, it is Garrett’s remarkable personality and unwavering sense of humor that will forever remain etched in his parents’ memories. Even in the face of unimaginable adversity, he radiated joy, illuminating the darkest of times.
Confronting Heartbreak: Parents Delivering the Heart-Wrenching News of Their Son’s Terminal Condition
The devastating revelation of their son’s terminal prognosis left these parents utterly shattered. Recognizing the importance of honesty and compassion, they made the difficult decision to share the truth with young Garrett from the very beginning, engaging in poignant conversations about the concept of death. Their unwavering goal was to ensure that Garrett never experienced fear, offering him solace during this challenging journey.
This unbelievably brave boy never stopped smiling, and had the power to spread his optimism to everyone around, including his parents, the nurses, and the doctors.
He even wrote his own obituary that touched the hearts of many. This is what this little angel sent from Heaven had to say before he said his final goodbye.
“My name is: Garrett Michael Boofias
My birthday is: I am 5 years old
My address is: I am a Bulldog!
My favorite color is: Blue….and Red and Black and Green
My favorite superhero is: Batman…and Thor, Iron Man, the Hulk and Cyborg
When I grow up: I’m going to be a professional boxer
“My favorite people are:
• Mommy, Daddy, my sister ‘Delcina’ (Delphina),
• The grandparents with the new house (Fredric and Cheryl Krueger),
• The grandparents with the camper (Daniel and Nita Matthias),
• My cousins: Grady, ‘that guy I took down that one time’ (Luke), and London Marie,
• My Auntie Janette and Stinky Uncle Andy (Andrew and Janette Krueger),
• Those two guys, you know, my uncles (Kristopfer Krueger and James Taylor)
• Batman!!
“The things I love the most: Playing with my sister, my blue bunny, thrash metal, Legos, my daycare friends, Batman and when they put me to sleep before they access my port.
“Things I hate: Pants!, dirty stupid cancer, when they access my port, needles, and the monkey nose that smells like cherry farts…I do like the mint monkey nose like at Mayo Radiation and that one guy that helped me build Legos (Randy).”
“When I die: I am going to be a gorilla and throw poo at Daddy!
“Burned or Buried: I want to be burned (like when Thor’s Mommy died) and made into a tree so I can live in it when I’m a gorilla
“Big or Small Funeral: Funerals are sad: I want 5 bouncy houses (because I’m 5), Batman, and snow cones.
Emilie and Ryan Matthias will honor Garrett’s final wishes by having a Celebration of Life on Saturday, July 14th from 5pm – 11pm at 2377 132nd Ct Van Meter, Iowa.
“Note: Symbolic Asgardian burial ceremony and fireworks will be held just after sunset”
“A private burial of Garrett’s ashes will be held at a later time once his parents figure out how the hell to get his ashes made into a tree and locate a nature preserve, so his tree resides in a protected area.”
Granting Garrett’s Wishes: Parents Honor Their Son’s Legacy with Gratitude and a Call to Action
Resolutely committed to honoring their beloved Garrett’s desires, his parents are unwavering in their pursuit of his final wishes. They invite all who feel compelled to contribute to support their family GoFundMe or donate to esteemed organizations that played an instrumental role in Garrett’s journey: The Little Al Foundation, The Pink Tractor Foundation, and the University of Iowa Dance Marathon.
Expressing profound gratitude, the parents extend heartfelt appreciation to the dedicated doctors, nurses, child life specialists, musicians, art therapists, and volunteers who tirelessly supported Garrett’s fight against cancer. They acknowledge the harsh reality that pediatric cancer, a cruel and merciless foe, claims far too many young lives, leaving devastation in its wake. Survivors, deemed “fortunate,” endure long-term debilitating effects and the perpetual fear of relapse. In memory of Garrett and countless others who have suffered, the parents resolve to continue their tireless advocacy for a cure, striving until no more children are robbed of their innocent years, no siblings lose their cherished confidants, and no more parents endure the unbearable pain of burying their precious children.
Unforgettable Laughter Amidst the Struggle: Garrett’s Humor Shines On
Throughout an arduous and painful nine-month battle with cancer, Garrett’s unwavering spirit prevailed, never losing his remarkable sense of humor. With mischievous delight, he took pleasure in playfully teasing the doctors and nurses who cared for him. From surprising them with whoopie cushions and sneaking clothespins onto their attire to “hazing” interns and new staff doctors, Garrett was a perpetual prankster, bringing unexpected laughter to those around him. But perhaps nothing caught people more off guard than his parting response, as he bid farewell with his unique flair:
“See ya later, suckas! – The Great Garrett Underpants”
Embracing Life’s Most Challenging Lesson: Remembering Garrett’s Positive, Humorous, and Inspiring Legacy
In the wake of their profound grief, the bereaved parents must navigate a path forward while carrying the weight of their cherished boy’s absence. They will forever hold dear the memory of Garrett—a beacon of positivity, humor, and extraordinary qualities that left an indelible mark on countless lives.
As they grapple with the enormity of their loss, the parents find solace in the enduring impact Garrett had on those around him. His infectious positivity, quick wit, and remarkable character touched the hearts of many, leaving a lasting imprint on their journeys. While the void he leaves behind is immeasurable, his remarkable spirit will continue to inspire and make a difference in the lives he touched.
Though the pain may be profound, the legacy of Garrett’s vibrant presence serves as a guiding light, reminding his grieving parents to embrace life’s most challenging lesson—to cherish the memories, celebrate his remarkable spirit, and honor the impact he made during his all-too-brief but extraordinary time in this world.
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