Forming a bond with a family member is always a special moment in your life. It’s important to cherish those moments while you can. While it’s common for many people to get close to their siblings or even their similar-aged cousins, there are some rare individuals in the world who are able to become best friends with their grandmothers. From baking cookies to sharing stories, grandmothers have plenty to offer in the best friend department.
Here are ten things you’ll understand if your grandma is or was your best friend.
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1. She Always Makes Sure You’re Well-Fed
Can you recount a time when you went over to visit your grandmother and she didn’t feed you? Probably not. With a fully stocked pantry and plenty of creative and delicious recipes under her belt, there’s no stopping any grandmother from making sure her grandkids get all the amazing snacks they love and crave so much.
2. You Always Have A Shoulder To Lean On
Since grandparents have already raised at least one child before, they are always ready to listen to their grandchildren’s problems and give them advice. According to Psychology Today, grandmothers especially go out of their way to form strong bonds with their grandkids, as they view them as a chance for a do-over with their parenting tactics.
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3. She’s A Great Listener
From sharing stories about the noisy neighbors to telling her about your personal struggles, there is no shortage of topics to discuss with each other and make your bond even stronger. Whether you have a secret or a wish to share, your grandma is always there ready to listen.
4. A Warm Place To Go
Do you recall your grandma’s house always feeling super warm and cozy? That’s probably because she kept her home so well-insulated. In fact, Amo Mama explained how plenty of grannies have kept the heat inside their houses thanks to some bubble wrap on the windows.
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5. She’s A Fighter
No one gets through life without their fair share of struggles, and our grandmothers are no exception. These strong-willed women have gained confidence and resilience over the years — some great characteristics to pass down to their grandkids.
6. Nothing Can Beat Your Grandma’s Hugs
If you’re feeling stressed or need a pick-me-up, Select Health suggests hugging someone. Who better to hug than your sweet, warmhearted grandmother?
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7. You Learn From Each Other
While your grandmother probably has plenty of stories to tell and a ton of wisdom to share, you probably have just as much to give back to her. From helping her understand more about technology or teaching her how to use the cool features on her new phone, there are endless opportunities for grandmas and their grandkids to spend time bonding and learning together.
8. Her Beauty Is Unmatched
Both inside and out, grandmothers are beautiful with their bright smiles, warm laughs and kind hearts. Who wouldn’t want to have someone like that as their best friend?
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9. She Loves Her Role
According to a study from HuffPost, 72% of grandparents think being a grandparent is the single most important role in their life. On top of that, 62% of grandparents have provided financial support to both their adult children and their grandchildren.
10. An Unlimited Amount Of Unconditional Love
No matter what reason you have for your grandmother being your best friend, one thing is certain: her love is unwavering and unconditional, and your friendship is sure to be a strong one.
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Was your grandma your best friend? Let us know, and be sure to pass this along to your loved ones, too!
