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12 Critical Things That Do Not Deserve Your Tolerance

Negativity is like a cancer. It can make your world sick and spread to others. Something that produces clarity and peace like mindfulness cannot prosper in an environment where negativity or critical things are the norm. If you are ready to achieve mindfulness, it is time to stop your toleration for negativity by stop tolerating these 12 critical things.

12 Critical Things That Do Not Deserve Your Tolerance

1- Being Other People’s Doormat

You can be nice to someone without letting them walk all over you. When you are someone’s doormat, you are surrendering your control over your emotions and behavior. They disregard your feelings and have no respect for you as a person. Toleration should never be a factor when dealing with this critical thing. You have to speak up for yourself and tell them that you will not stand up for this type of behavior. If you do not stand up for yourself and be assertive, no one will. You deserve to be treated as a person, as an equal. Mindfulness comes from treating yourself well and not allowing others to treat you poorly.

2- Refusing Happiness

Happiness is subjective. You can choose to be happy. You do not have to surround yourself with turmoil. Make changes until you find your happiness.

3- Being Lazy

Never tolerate laziness from yourself.Nothing is going to be handed to you. You have to work for the important things in life. A proactive attitude is one of those critical things you need in order to get the most out of life.

4- Valuing Money Too Much

Money is not an important factor when someone is seeking mindfulness. However, it is one of those critical things you cannot do without having. The goal is to not let the need for money or material goods rule your life. When you are born, you come into the world with nothing but your birthday suit. You may be buried in a nice suit when you die, but it still does not go with you. Remember that when you are fretting over finances.

5- Explaining Your Actions

People should give you the courtesy to let you make your own decisions without you explaining them. It can be fruitless trying to explain your reasoning, your actions, or your opinions to people who feel that they know better. Give it up and let it go. Do what you want to do. No explanations needed. You do not need their validation or approval.

6- Neglecting Your Health

One critical thing that should not include toleration is your health. You have to be diligent when it comes to making healthy choices. If you do not, the negativity in your life will be cancer or some other disease. Make sure you are eating well, getting plenty of sleep and rest, and exercising and reducing stress.

7- Being A Follower

Do not follow the status quo. Be your own person and say no to trends. You will only reach your full potential when you decide to go against the curve and pave your own path.

8- Staying At A Job You Hate

Having a job is one of those critical things you need, but you do not have to stay at a job that you do not like. You should never settle for a job because of the steady income. It can cause you to feel stress and trickle into other long term problems. Some jobs can cause you physical and personal problems. Do not stay in a job for the paycheck. You will never be happy that way.

9- Being A People Pleaser

When you are people pleaser, you are sacrificing your own needs and identity to fit others. You are diminishing your power. Reclaim your power and find your own voice.

10- Negative Self Talk

Are you your own worst critic? Stop talking negatively with yourself. A good exercise to break this habit is to give yourself three affirmations about why you are a good person every hour. You can use words to empower yourself and seek mindfulness instead of belittling yourself and lowering your sense of self worth through negative self talk.

11- Staying In Your Comfort Zone

It is important to get out of your comfort zone. It is the only way you will learn how to be a better person and how to accomplish toleration in situation where you have to be tolerant. It may be safe in your comfort zone, but you will never be able to experience the world fully if you make it your whole world.

12- Unsupportive Friends

Friends can be a great source of negativity. They can make you feel like your hopes and dreams are a fantasy or that you are not good enough to accomplish them. You need friends who will lift you up and help you accomplish your goals by being supportive. Never tolerate negative friends or friends who make the relationship all about them.